Hey what up people? Well... I know you might be thinking “hey what this dude is up to?” Well… nothing special actually anyway I want to talk about my perspective about the gender care-group last Wed 110810 approximately 1930 hours. I thought it was 10/10 when it comes to methods of teaching, for discussion wise I am afraid to say that I would give it 5/10 (the perspective of guy and girls towards each other thingy if you know what I mean.) For the second discussion I would give it 8/10 (not bad hehe…)
Well… why 5/10 for gender discussion? Erm… I thought that the time given for the discussion was very short and for the guys we are in a disadvantage due to the inferior amount us. Don’t get me wrong I am not trying to arrow one another or playing any sexiest game. I believe that we can do a better job answering those questions which we tossed towards each other.
Let us talk about the guy side (because for the girl, I hate to admit it but they did answer most of our questions.) We didn’t answer most of the question and I thought the answer we gave them was really vague. I felt quite sorry for the sister because they are not allowed to rational to get the point they wanted and neither the guys.
Well… these are a list of questions the girls asked from us. Some of the question I thought that the guys did not answer them properly because we were trying to race against time thus we didn’t read some of the question properly. Most of the guys mistaken question 5 for question 6 actually they are different thus one of the guy wrote “refer to question 5” as the answer for question 6. Well… I thought of writing the answer of my perspective towards these answer but I am not going to answer every question and perhaps briefly to avoid too much exposure of myself. If anyone of you wants to know you can ask me personally I will be happy to answer according to my “reached.”
Question 1: How Guy handles their emotions?
>Answer 1: Talk to our shepherd, someone we are close to, or someone we can trust.
Question 2: Under what circumstances will guys readily lay down their ego?
>Answer 2: When someone shows concern for me and when I get humiliated in some ways or when I really care for someone for example my friend whom I working on.
Question 3: What are the top 3 insecurity in men’s life?
-NIL-
Question 4: In what areas that the guys think they are better than woman?
>Answer 4: Guy cells regenerated faster than girls (scientifically proven. Lol..) Guy are more objective (whatever thing we do I need the logic/reason behind it.) Guys have more capacity for physical enhancement and fortification.
Question 5: What is it guys find intolerable about woman and if there are any traits that guys wish girls will play less on?
-NIL-
Question 6: What kind of girl pisses you off?
-NIL-
Questions 7: What kind of qualities do you look for in a girl?
-NIL-
Question 8: How would you feel if you future spouse do better than you? (eg. Salary, position, height…)
>Answer 8: Well I will feel really proud and honored to have her because she chooses me. And I don’t have to worry about not having enough capital for future investment and business plan.
Question 9: Do you mind being a stay-home dad? (housework, baby-sitting)
>Answer 9: Well personally I wouldn’t like to stay at home because I love to keep myself busy. I want to support my family I don’t find it nice to let my future spouse to be the sole bread winner. I have to contribute to the family but I God wants we to stay at home then well… I don’t mind staying at home and so I can also do online business and investment without working outside.
Questions 10: Do you prefer girls with. (Personally I thought these question was a tough question for the guys because different guys have their personal preference of a kind of girl that like. We all can’t answer them together. Well you can’t have a girl with a long and short hair right? You can’t put a girl 2 or 3 in 1 right? Or not it will be nasty.)
(a) Make-up/No make-up
(b) Long/short hair
(c) Noisy/quiet
(d) Tall/short
(e) Tan/fair
-NIL-
Well… I am done for the guys now for the girls. The girls as I said, they did answer our most of our question and they did well answering them (clap…clap…) But the only thing I thought could end it better is that they can further elaborate one of the question that we guy gave them (Question 6: What drives the sister to be more responsive to God’s Calling?) that question was suggested by me because I was expecting to know the “truth” behind the reason why there are most girls leader than guys today. And according to the statistic Jeremiah gave me is that today the number of guy leader in American church were diminishing and the girl leader are increasing. Why is it so? That question somehow struck me and it makes me even more curious.
The presentation of the answer was quite aggressive like as if we are having a gender warfare like you know, those girl were building their arsenal and we guy are trying to do many possible counter-measure.
I believe we all have many things we can learn from one another. I didn’t mean for the outbreak of world war 3. We are there to learn aren’t we?
Well… that’s all I can talk about the gender perspective discussion. The rest of the drama discussion was okay everyone did a good job presenting their answer so no comment.
I thought I did learn something from the gender care-group initially when Wei Cai told me the there will be a combine gender care-group I was shock I even try to find excuses to avoid attending the care-group after my time in NS group I was too used to having only guys around me now I am in 20+ I was trying to adapt to changes (guys~ if you know what I mean) Well after attending the care-group, it wasn’t that bad. I also manage to know some friends better and it helps me to interact better.
By the way people I was told by Wei Cai to send you people the List of question and answer list we all did during the gender care-group. We will send to you people when I’m done keying them into the computer. Have a fruitful week people. I am signing off
Agape Moses,
Well… why 5/10 for gender discussion? Erm… I thought that the time given for the discussion was very short and for the guys we are in a disadvantage due to the inferior amount us. Don’t get me wrong I am not trying to arrow one another or playing any sexiest game. I believe that we can do a better job answering those questions which we tossed towards each other.
Let us talk about the guy side (because for the girl, I hate to admit it but they did answer most of our questions.) We didn’t answer most of the question and I thought the answer we gave them was really vague. I felt quite sorry for the sister because they are not allowed to rational to get the point they wanted and neither the guys.
Well… these are a list of questions the girls asked from us. Some of the question I thought that the guys did not answer them properly because we were trying to race against time thus we didn’t read some of the question properly. Most of the guys mistaken question 5 for question 6 actually they are different thus one of the guy wrote “refer to question 5” as the answer for question 6. Well… I thought of writing the answer of my perspective towards these answer but I am not going to answer every question and perhaps briefly to avoid too much exposure of myself. If anyone of you wants to know you can ask me personally I will be happy to answer according to my “reached.”
Question 1: How Guy handles their emotions?
>Answer 1: Talk to our shepherd, someone we are close to, or someone we can trust.
Question 2: Under what circumstances will guys readily lay down their ego?
>Answer 2: When someone shows concern for me and when I get humiliated in some ways or when I really care for someone for example my friend whom I working on.
Question 3: What are the top 3 insecurity in men’s life?
-NIL-
Question 4: In what areas that the guys think they are better than woman?
>Answer 4: Guy cells regenerated faster than girls (scientifically proven. Lol..) Guy are more objective (whatever thing we do I need the logic/reason behind it.) Guys have more capacity for physical enhancement and fortification.
Question 5: What is it guys find intolerable about woman and if there are any traits that guys wish girls will play less on?
-NIL-
Question 6: What kind of girl pisses you off?
-NIL-
Questions 7: What kind of qualities do you look for in a girl?
-NIL-
Question 8: How would you feel if you future spouse do better than you? (eg. Salary, position, height…)
>Answer 8: Well I will feel really proud and honored to have her because she chooses me. And I don’t have to worry about not having enough capital for future investment and business plan.
Question 9: Do you mind being a stay-home dad? (housework, baby-sitting)
>Answer 9: Well personally I wouldn’t like to stay at home because I love to keep myself busy. I want to support my family I don’t find it nice to let my future spouse to be the sole bread winner. I have to contribute to the family but I God wants we to stay at home then well… I don’t mind staying at home and so I can also do online business and investment without working outside.
Questions 10: Do you prefer girls with. (Personally I thought these question was a tough question for the guys because different guys have their personal preference of a kind of girl that like. We all can’t answer them together. Well you can’t have a girl with a long and short hair right? You can’t put a girl 2 or 3 in 1 right? Or not it will be nasty.)
(a) Make-up/No make-up
(b) Long/short hair
(c) Noisy/quiet
(d) Tall/short
(e) Tan/fair
-NIL-
Well… I am done for the guys now for the girls. The girls as I said, they did answer our most of our question and they did well answering them (clap…clap…) But the only thing I thought could end it better is that they can further elaborate one of the question that we guy gave them (Question 6: What drives the sister to be more responsive to God’s Calling?) that question was suggested by me because I was expecting to know the “truth” behind the reason why there are most girls leader than guys today. And according to the statistic Jeremiah gave me is that today the number of guy leader in American church were diminishing and the girl leader are increasing. Why is it so? That question somehow struck me and it makes me even more curious.
The presentation of the answer was quite aggressive like as if we are having a gender warfare like you know, those girl were building their arsenal and we guy are trying to do many possible counter-measure.
I believe we all have many things we can learn from one another. I didn’t mean for the outbreak of world war 3. We are there to learn aren’t we?
Well… that’s all I can talk about the gender perspective discussion. The rest of the drama discussion was okay everyone did a good job presenting their answer so no comment.
I thought I did learn something from the gender care-group initially when Wei Cai told me the there will be a combine gender care-group I was shock I even try to find excuses to avoid attending the care-group after my time in NS group I was too used to having only guys around me now I am in 20+ I was trying to adapt to changes (guys~ if you know what I mean) Well after attending the care-group, it wasn’t that bad. I also manage to know some friends better and it helps me to interact better.
By the way people I was told by Wei Cai to send you people the List of question and answer list we all did during the gender care-group. We will send to you people when I’m done keying them into the computer. Have a fruitful week people. I am signing off
Agape Moses,